The Evil Eight And. Rupert Murdoch and Wendi Deng
Without Prejudice
Watched The Doctors today, the following is a list of the things that make up the worst kind of people that we might just let into our lives. The Baiters. As described in Dr Phils book, Life Code. It comes on the same day as Rupert Murdoch and Wendi Deng announce their divorce. A shock, and sad news as is any marriage breakup.
From Dr Phil's Life Code book..........
Watched The Doctors today, the following is a list of the things that make up the worst kind of people that we might just let into our lives. The Baiters. As described in Dr Phils book, Life Code. It comes on the same day as Rupert Murdoch and Wendi Deng announce their divorce. A shock, and sad news as is any marriage breakup.
From Dr Phil's Life Code book..........
Detect a BAITER by noticing these telling characteristics:
The Evil 8
1. See the world through a lens of entitlement.
2. Lack of empathy.
3. Incapable of feeling remorse or guilt.
4. Self-destructive behavior.
5. Feed off drama and crises.
6. Try to brag and outsmart you.
7. Have short-lived relationships.
8. Have delusions.
The Nefarious 15
1. They infiltrate your life with promises and flattery.
2. Define you as a conspiratorial confidant.
3. Are focused on getting your approval.
4. They gather data to build a file on you.
5. Misdirect and maintain a mystery about who they really are.
6. Constantly blame others when confronted.
7. They will lie to the point of destruction.
8. Tendency to cheat and steal.
9. Isolate their victims to foster dependency.
10. Abuse positions of power.
11. Know your hot buttons to gain leverage.
12. Selective memory.
13. Two-faced: Spread lies and gossip.
14. Paranoid.
15. Passive aggressive.
Change Direction
Stephan, 27, says he’s sick and tired of the direction his life is going and asks Dr. Travis and Dr. Phil how to turn it around.
“I don’t have the success in my life that I want -- at all,” Stephan says. “Throughout my life I’ve always been someone who’s generous. I’ve probably lent out over $40,000, but I’ve only got about $5,000 back.
“I wish life had an instruction booklet so they can tell you ‘this is what you need to do and this is how you can find success.’”
Stephan also says he has an allergy to alcohol and that after his friends all turned 21, their social lives became focused on drinking, which left him excluded and lonely.
“Up to 80 percent of Asians have alcohol intolerance, and when you have alcohol intolerance, you’re lacking a certain enzyme,” Dr. Travis explains. “If you can’t break [alcohol] down, you can get flushing of the face, nausea, vomiting, headaches and feel terrible. People who have this alcohol intolerance don’t want to drink and there’s a medical reason for that, but that shouldn’t be a reason to struggle to make friends.”
“I don’t drink at all and I’ve made that choice and it’s never bothered me at all. For a lot of people it’s a social lubricant, they need it to get their inhibitions down so they can come out,” Dr. Phil says.
“You don’t need to anesthetize a part of your brain in order to have fun,” he says.
Seasonal Affective Disorder
Do you feel down in the dumps during fall and winter? Dr. Travis and chief medical officer of Pfizer Dr. Freda Lewis-Hall explain it may be a type of depression called seasonal affective disorder.
“SAD occurs routinely around the same time each year and is associated with having less natural sunlight,” Dr. Lewis-Hall says.
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Dr. Phil advises Stephan to turn his life around using the Sweet 16 Success Tips:
1. Have a defined image of your character.
2. Create a perception of uniqueness.
3. Play big, not just long.
4. Learn to claim and accept praise, and acknowledge it in a gracious way.
5. Become "essential."
6. Know your real currency.
7. Always have a plan.
8. Keep things “close to the vest.”
9. Always be investigative.
10. Stretch your way to success, even if it feels like you're “faking it until you make it.”
11. Always keep your options open.
12. Master the system and figure out a way to make it work for you.
13. Create a passionate nucleus of supporters.
14. Deal only with the truth.
15. Recognize and use the ego and greed of others to create a path to success.
16. Pick your battles and never let your opponent have control.
“The difference between winners and losers is winners do things losers don’t want to do,” Dr. Phil says. “You’ve got to stop whining and start doing.”
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