Secret Womens Business
Without Prejudice
Never give up on your girlfriends when you "get" a man. He will not understand periods, menopause, depression. He will want to "fix" it and he can't. Only your girlfriends and a good amount of alcohol will. So many women feel that they can only be successful if the have "The One" in their lives. Especailly young women of child bearing age. Thats a myth. You can be quite content by yourself and do not then feel as if you have to give your life over to someone else.
I have one friend that stated in the past that if she was spending time with a male it was because she was only thinking about getting into bed with him. She saw male friends as a myth and so spent an enormous amount of time pandering to them. She would disappear from her girlfriends for years at a time. One of her men hung himself, one threw money at her and another will do anything for her. She remains alone and states she will never have another man in her life. I await developments.
Look as good as you can and then leave it alone. Fiddling with your hair for hours only makes it look worse never better.
Always have on hand the four essentails, eye drops, concealer, mascara and lip gloss.
Look after your health more than anything, lose weight if you have to and there is no substitute for just good old fashioned advice. Eat a lot less and move, move, move.
Don't think about something, just do it, you spend more time thinking about something than doing it.
Spoil yourself, women give all the time and when they are with others are actually are "with" that person. This expends a lot of mental energy.
Realise you can't help everyone. But you can help others better if you are coming from a good place yourself.
Don't do the "I can't be bothered" look. The whole world Will notice and saggy trackie bottoms and stringy unwashed hair tells the world you don't value yourself.
Realise all men think they are Gods, (Comment from a Man )
Realise that your life is up to you. Don't be a martyr, people will just think you are an easy soft option.
Good girls go to Heaven, bad girls get to go everywhere else.
Be loving and affectionate with others but also to yourself. Give yourself a hearty pat on the back if you are proud of something you have done. We are taught that it is "up" ourselves to self promote, do it anyway, Men do. And Americans do it all the time.
Be a lady in the lounge room and a whore in the bedroom. Sex is pleasureable and releases the great feel good hormones. You will never feel like it when they do so just get on with it and enjoy it.
Even if you are young now, you will get old one day, be determined to make the right decisions, Life is not short its long and you need to make the right decisions when young so that you are happy and fulfilled when you are old.
Never be scared to try new things.
Have kids if you can, they are worth it and have as many as you feel capable of looking after. They will usually reward you with grandkids and great grandkids and there is no better feeling than having all that love and adoration in your life. Kisses and hugs and skin to skin contact every day is a basic human need and saves old people dying from loneliness.
Nurture your talent, everyone has one that they are the best at. Its what makes you unique and calms in times of stress.
More women get depression than men. The world is run by mens rules, realise that. We don't get equal pay and while that remains we always will be undervalued. Some women fall into depression because the world is run by mens rules. Realise that is the way it is, and though unfair, we still have to live in this world. Encourage independence in young women and caring in young men.
Have fun, fun is a greatly undervalued past time. Dance, sing, release yourself from being sensible all the time. Only a fool is always right.
Love with your heart it will never ever guide you wrong. Choose a good man with a back bone who adores the very ground you walk on. Stay away from moody guys, vilent men, alcoholics and uneployed men, druggies. There are plenty of decent men in this world, The bad ones are lone wolves anyway.
Determine to never be bored or boring and learn to maintain simple things around the home. I can't stand "helplesss" females.
Travel as much as you are able, it broadens the mind and makes you happier to be homee.
And the best answer to everything is one word, LOVE. Love yourself first and then love others. Forgive. In the great scheme of things most things are bearable and some people are just shits, avoid them and opt to hang around happy positive people.
Relaise housework takes up all the time you have plus one half hour, so do what you can and then leave it alone.
Accept help and compliments and presents given, people love to give. Accept gracefully.
Don't always tell the truth, learn to lie and lie well. You have to have an excellent memory to be a liar.
Never give up on your girlfriends when you "get" a man. He will not understand periods, menopause, depression. He will want to "fix" it and he can't. Only your girlfriends and a good amount of alcohol will. So many women feel that they can only be successful if the have "The One" in their lives. Especailly young women of child bearing age. Thats a myth. You can be quite content by yourself and do not then feel as if you have to give your life over to someone else.
I have one friend that stated in the past that if she was spending time with a male it was because she was only thinking about getting into bed with him. She saw male friends as a myth and so spent an enormous amount of time pandering to them. She would disappear from her girlfriends for years at a time. One of her men hung himself, one threw money at her and another will do anything for her. She remains alone and states she will never have another man in her life. I await developments.
Look as good as you can and then leave it alone. Fiddling with your hair for hours only makes it look worse never better.
Always have on hand the four essentails, eye drops, concealer, mascara and lip gloss.
Look after your health more than anything, lose weight if you have to and there is no substitute for just good old fashioned advice. Eat a lot less and move, move, move.
Don't think about something, just do it, you spend more time thinking about something than doing it.
Spoil yourself, women give all the time and when they are with others are actually are "with" that person. This expends a lot of mental energy.
Realise you can't help everyone. But you can help others better if you are coming from a good place yourself.
Don't do the "I can't be bothered" look. The whole world Will notice and saggy trackie bottoms and stringy unwashed hair tells the world you don't value yourself.
Realise all men think they are Gods, (Comment from a Man )
Realise that your life is up to you. Don't be a martyr, people will just think you are an easy soft option.
Good girls go to Heaven, bad girls get to go everywhere else.
Be loving and affectionate with others but also to yourself. Give yourself a hearty pat on the back if you are proud of something you have done. We are taught that it is "up" ourselves to self promote, do it anyway, Men do. And Americans do it all the time.
Be a lady in the lounge room and a whore in the bedroom. Sex is pleasureable and releases the great feel good hormones. You will never feel like it when they do so just get on with it and enjoy it.
Even if you are young now, you will get old one day, be determined to make the right decisions, Life is not short its long and you need to make the right decisions when young so that you are happy and fulfilled when you are old.
Never be scared to try new things.
Have kids if you can, they are worth it and have as many as you feel capable of looking after. They will usually reward you with grandkids and great grandkids and there is no better feeling than having all that love and adoration in your life. Kisses and hugs and skin to skin contact every day is a basic human need and saves old people dying from loneliness.
Nurture your talent, everyone has one that they are the best at. Its what makes you unique and calms in times of stress.
More women get depression than men. The world is run by mens rules, realise that. We don't get equal pay and while that remains we always will be undervalued. Some women fall into depression because the world is run by mens rules. Realise that is the way it is, and though unfair, we still have to live in this world. Encourage independence in young women and caring in young men.
Have fun, fun is a greatly undervalued past time. Dance, sing, release yourself from being sensible all the time. Only a fool is always right.
Love with your heart it will never ever guide you wrong. Choose a good man with a back bone who adores the very ground you walk on. Stay away from moody guys, vilent men, alcoholics and uneployed men, druggies. There are plenty of decent men in this world, The bad ones are lone wolves anyway.
Determine to never be bored or boring and learn to maintain simple things around the home. I can't stand "helplesss" females.
Travel as much as you are able, it broadens the mind and makes you happier to be homee.
And the best answer to everything is one word, LOVE. Love yourself first and then love others. Forgive. In the great scheme of things most things are bearable and some people are just shits, avoid them and opt to hang around happy positive people.
Relaise housework takes up all the time you have plus one half hour, so do what you can and then leave it alone.
Accept help and compliments and presents given, people love to give. Accept gracefully.
Don't always tell the truth, learn to lie and lie well. You have to have an excellent memory to be a liar.
