Isn't Life great With The One you Want
Without Prejudice
Life is great with the one you want, because you are happy, certain, trusting, and feel good. They make you feel better just by being around them and the anticipation of seeing them again. I want to see them every day, I want to feed them and help them and look after them and know they are mine. I don't want a man that is looking at other women unless it's just in admiration of great beauty. Like a beautiful painting
Men that deliberately look at other women to upset their spouse need their heads read. They will never be good husband material and ther eare just some men like that. Sam Newman and Shane Warne should never ever marry, and that advice comes from Men, I know. Men know a player and they also know "losers". Decent men may be tempted but if they love their wives or girlfriends they wouldn't dream of upsetting her.
I just had a tradie here and he was very hesitant to come in my unit to fetch something. Because he's married. And obviously happily as he doesn't want to be anywhere near temptation (honestly, me ! as if ) and that's respect for his wife. I love that. If I thought a man was flirting with me when I knew he had a woman somewhere I'd be disgusted.
Life is great with the one you want, because you are happy, certain, trusting, and feel good. They make you feel better just by being around them and the anticipation of seeing them again. I want to see them every day, I want to feed them and help them and look after them and know they are mine. I don't want a man that is looking at other women unless it's just in admiration of great beauty. Like a beautiful painting
Men that deliberately look at other women to upset their spouse need their heads read. They will never be good husband material and ther eare just some men like that. Sam Newman and Shane Warne should never ever marry, and that advice comes from Men, I know. Men know a player and they also know "losers". Decent men may be tempted but if they love their wives or girlfriends they wouldn't dream of upsetting her.
I just had a tradie here and he was very hesitant to come in my unit to fetch something. Because he's married. And obviously happily as he doesn't want to be anywhere near temptation (honestly, me ! as if ) and that's respect for his wife. I love that. If I thought a man was flirting with me when I knew he had a woman somewhere I'd be disgusted.
I hate to admit it, but like a lot of women when young I took other men away from their women. But I didn't really feel compassion for them till I went out with Nifty Nev And by` then I was in my 40's. he was a notorious outrageous drunk and womaniser, but honest with it. He adored his ex girlfriend and said so, he just didn't love her. He said he had been a bastard to her and I agreed, she was a great person and didn't deserve hurt.
We spoke after I was over Nifty Nev, she was a lovely, hurt , gracious woman and we commiserated on him. but I knew I had taken her man away and that wasn't fair.
I learned a lot of lessons in my 30's and couldn't be bothered with hurting someone else. In my twenties II had a strong sex drive and didn't give a bollocks what I did. I was totally outrageous. Now, I know, I am an Alpha Female. And Alpha Females will always demand the best, and go out and get it if they want it.
And I had an emotionally cold husband that hated love and affection, hated it. Even as a young wife he would push me away when I went to kiss or hug him. What was I thinking??? I think now. The lack of love and affection Killed our marriage like nothing else.
I grew up in a big family with a kind and doting Dad and I loved hugs and kisses and touch. he didn't. he thought it was "sick" or perverted. Like watching porn isn't when you are happily married , but love and affection is harmful, somehow.
Any way enough said, about that and on to better things.
When you are with the right one, he won't hurt you and if he does, he'll realise his mistake and apologise or do you a kindness and not let you find out and never do it again. It's as simple as that. he won't want you to hurt as you are his best friend, lover, whore, sex goddess, and the world without you in it is not a place he wants to be. He wants to be with you, he respects your opinion, even if it's wrong.
He will be kind to you as he loves you with every fibre of his being and he will protect you to the death. He knows what he has and will do everything to respect you as he knows Women are much nicer beings and are expert in the ways of making him feel good.
He rules with patience, strength and good humour, loves kids and animals and wouldn't strike them. He also has to be a little bit humble, arrogance is not required, nor needed, he keeps himself interesting, looks after himself and others. Works hard at what he does and loves it but also has hobbies he can spend hours on, so the woman gets some space.
He needs a big shed somewhere and is busy woodworking, restoring, and not being bored and sitting on COD all day. Stress relief it is for a lot of men , but limit it. It's addictive, I hear.
Good men know they have all the answers, they have a wife and family that dotes on him and vice versa, as there can be no better than for a man to be the head of a family. The protection and hard work is something he is proud to do.
